Oh my goodness, I love my kids. When they are budding with creativity, or when they are behave like spoiled little boogers. When they backtalk me with such vile that I could sew their mouths up forever, or when they excel at some endeavor that even they are shocked. That is how our days have been lately. The highest of highs and the lowest of lows. Determining our determination is a good summary, actually. Each little being in our house deciding just which battles they want to have - be it a good battle of academics or sports, or a bad battle between siblings and the fairness of life.
At 6, Lily has declared she is writing a book all about MATH! Unbeknownst to me, Lily took her journal out and began writing math facts about adding the same number together. She started by writing 1+1=2, 2+2=4, etc. She is now somewhere in the 150s (152+152=304). Her self-determined goal: 1,000. I shouldn't really be surprised by this as she has always had an interest in patterns. As a toddler, I would often find her sorting her blocks into colors or shapes. She would always string beads along in a pattern. Her enthusiasm is a bit contagious, I admit. I have already thought about teaching her the very basic concept of multiplication in order for her to write her tables down in her journal. She will be able to understand the pattern of that, even if she doesn't memorize them. Maybe a goal for the summer?
Sadie has been somewhat of a brutal force on the soccer field in the latter half of the spring season. She hasn't played in 2 or 3 years and yet, has found this determination in her spirit to come away from the pack with the ball. Most often, she succeeds, even against some bigger boys. She just doesn't give up! She had a a nasty fall in the driveway that resulted in a few extra layers of skin on her knees. The next day at her game she fell a few times going after the ball and was kicked in the knee as well. Despite blood being drawn and keeping her hands in little fists from the pain, she refused to come out of the game and continue to push forward. One the flip side, Sadie is once again asserting her independence and not really holding back verbally when she is not exactly thrilled at the request being given to her. In fact, she has been downright rude and mouth. Poor thing...hardly has any privileges left to take away. Her favorite line lately, "You are so mean!" UGH! I sense, however, we might be turning the corner.
Ethan is pushing past the boredom that May can sometimes bring with swimming. Short-course season is over; school is ending. Things seem to be ending everywhere, except in swimming. He was finding some issues with the authority at swimming, but I told him he simply needed to buck up. This wasn't about them, it was about him. Make these practices all about getting himself better, improving his skill, soaking it all in, working hard when a lot of other swimmers were in slow motion just getting ready for summer leagues. I haven't heard much more complaining since that conversation. As far as his usual banter/fighting/animosity toward Sadie, I have overheard him say two times, "Sadie, let's just stop. It isn't worth it." Time away from the material object of their desire can do wonders to an attitude.
We are moving through May at lightning speed. Two weeks and 3 days until the end of school.